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πŸ“˜ Part 3: Foreign friends

Is making friends just to learn a language exploitative? Rory dives into the complexities of international friendships, culture clashes in the workplace, and what skills you truly need to succeed globally.

Maria & Rory

Β· 9 min read

This episode’s vocabulary

Exploitative

adj. β€” using someone unfairly for your own advantage.

Extras

plural noun β€” advantages; non-essential things.

Certain

adj. β€” having no doubt or knowing exactly that something is true, or known to be true, correct, exact, or effective.

Resilience

noun β€” the ability to be happy, successful, etc. again after something difficult or bad has happened.

Proficiency

noun β€” the fact of having the skill and experience for doing something.

Culture clash

noun β€” a conflict arising from the interaction of people with different cultural values.

Analogy

noun β€” a comparison between things that have similar features, often used to help explain a principle or idea.

Punctuality

noun β€” the fact of arriving, doing something, or happening at the expected or correct time and not late.

Frustration

noun β€” the fact that something prevents plans or efforts from being successful.

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Questions and answers

Maria

Rory, do you think having foreign friends is a good way to know other countries?

Rory

Well, it's definitely one way, though I don't think it's the only way. Actually, if that's the primary reason you get to know people, then it's a bit exploitative, isn't it? Um, it's probably better to make friends just because you like the people involved, and then any advantages that come with it are like added extras.

Maria

Do you think it's important to know the culture and the language before going to another country?

Rory

Well, maybe not everything, but you should at least make an effort. It's respectful, and it helps you grow as a person, in my opinion. For example, you have an understanding of why people are the way they are. And you can reduce stress on service stuff when you ask for things, or make an order or request.

Maria

What do you think of people who work in international companies?

Rory

Well, I suppose that depends on what you mean, as people, I'm sure they're no better or worse than anyone else. I'd imagine they have more developed language skills compared to people who work in companies working within borders, rather than across them. Although that's by knowing certain, is it? It would be contingent on where you work like the department.

Maria

What abilities do people need to have when working in an international company?

Rory

Well, like I said, good language skills, resilience will be in high demand too, given stressful situations that can occur when working with people from different cultures that have different values. Organization and communication will be a priority as well. But they're in demand everywhere, aren't they?

Maria

What difficulties can people face while they're working in an international company?

Rory

Well, I suppose the communication issue because if you're dealing with people from other countries, then they might not have the same proficiency and language as you, or you might not have the same proficiency as them. So that could cause problems. I think that's the biggest one, really, that and culture clashes in terms of what's valued and what's not.

Maria

What do you mean about culture clashes? Is it like culture shock?

Rory

I don't think that's the best analogy. It's closer to, it's better to give an example like time or punctuality, for example. Some cultures value punctuality, and some don't. And that can cause frustrations when people are late and they don't seem to care, for example.

Maria

Do you think it's difficult to have foreign friends?

Rory

I don't think so. As long as you're willing to put in the effort to maintain the friendship, then it's not difficult at all.

Maria

Thank you, Rory, for your answers!

Rory

Hooray! -

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