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πŸ“˜ Part 3: Waiting

Why do kids go wild in a queue? Rory explains the psychology of patience, revealing why adults cope better and sharing Band 9 vocabulary for describing frustrating, tedious situations we all face.

Maria & Rory

Β· 12 min read

This episode’s vocabulary

The wherewithal

noun β€” something such as money or a particular quality that is necessary in order to get or achieve something.

To cope with something

collocation β€” to deal successfully with a difficult situation or a person in a difficult situation.

To be short on time

phrase β€” to have limited time to do something.

Attention span

noun β€” the length of time that someone can keep their thoughts and interests fixed on something.

Prolonged

adj. β€” continuing for a long time.

Youthful

adj. β€” having the qualities that are typical of young people.

To expend

verb β€” to use or spend time, effort, or money.

To reflect

verb β€” if a surface reflects light, heat, sound, or an image, it sends the light, etc. back and does not absorb it.

Nuance

noun β€” a very slight difference in appearance, meaning, sound, etc.

Patience

noun β€” the ability to wait, or to continue doing something despite difficulties, or to suffer without complaining or becoming annoyed.

Patient

adj. β€” having patience.

To strike up

something β€” to start a relationship or conversation with someone.

Monotony

noun β€” a situation in which something stays the same and is therefore boring.

Queuing

verb β€” the act of waiting in a line of people, often to buy something.

Tedium

noun β€” the quality of being boring for a long time.

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Questions and answers

Maria

On what occasions do people have to wait?

Rory

Well, I suppose generally when they don't have the wherewithal to move forward. So you have to wait for a bus when you don't have access to a car to take you places.

Maria

Do people usually like to wait for a long time?

Rory

Well, I wouldn't say they like it but they cope better with it than, well, they used to because they've got smartphones to carry around with them. And constant internet access to keep them entertained. Before they'd have had to sit around and wait for ages. And that's not fun for most people.

Maria

Why do people dislike waiting?

Rory

Well, if they're focused on a goal and don't see progress towards it, I can see how that would be frustrating for a lot of people. Especially if they're short on time, like waiting for a doctor's appointment during their lunch break or something like that.

Maria

Why do most children have difficulties waiting for a long time?

Rory

Well, they've got a shorter attention span. So it makes sense, they wouldn't be able to sit still for prolonged periods like some adults can, plus they're full of that youthful energy they need to expend to, well, they just need to expend or it builds up and they go wild, which makes moving around rather important. Now I think about it.

Maria

Do children have more patience than adults?

Rory

Good question. Given the way, a lot of adults behave sometimes. Generally speaking, though, probably not. Adults can more effectively reflect on situations and are, well, they're more able to see the nuances in them. And that lets them use that to keep their cool more easily. Children don't have that experience. So it makes sense they would be less patient.

Maria

Who behaves better while waiting, children or adults?

Rory

Well, broadly speaking, probably adults for the reasons I already mentioned.

Maria

What can people do while waiting in a line?

Rory

Most of them are on their phones, distracting themselves in the experience, though, if some people like to strike up a conversation with a random standing next to them, that could be a fun way to make friends, or at least break the monotony of the situation, since it's a new experience.

Maria

Do people in your country like waiting in line?

Rory

Do people in any country like queuing? They might deal with it better because of all the things they can use to deal with the tedium, but I doubt they actually enjoy the experience of just standing around and waiting. It's not exactly a breathtaking time, is it?

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