M: Social media, dear listener. We mean Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, YouTube. Alright? Whatever you have, these are all like social media platforms, okay? They are useful and efficient. So they are kind of like efficient. You write a message and it's sent right away. Okay? And your friend reads it. Like efficient. Yeah, chop, chop, chop. And we use social media to stay in touch with friends. So to stay in touch? To stay in contact, to kind of like to talk to them. So stay in touch with my friends, my relatives, and random strangers.
R: You stay in touch with random strangers?
M: Well, on social media, you know? Just like, you don't know this person, but kind of you talk.
R: Oh yeah, there are lots of people like that. It's really weird now.
M: What preposition should we use with WhatsApp or Telegram or Instagram?
R: Well, it's on the internet. So it should be on WhatsApp or on Telegram. Not in.
M: So I stay in touch with my friends on Telegram, on WhatsApp, on Instagram. What did you mean by "bizarre sense of entitlement"?
R: Oh, I love that expression. I'm going to use it more, to be honest with you. So, well, a bizarre sense of entitlement just means it's an unusual feeling or right people think they have to do something. But it's not really normal. So in the case of social media, people have this bizarre sense of entitlement to your time, where if they send you a message, they expect a response immediately. This is not all people but they treat it like it's a conversation that they're having. So because they've sent you a message they expect one back, like you would have in a face-to-face conversation. But that's not how this works because, of course, people are busy. And they have things to do. And so they're not able to reply immediately. However, a lot of the time, sometimes people message each other, and they think they should get this reply, which is a very bizarre sense of entitlement.
M: Entitlement is negative. So disapproving, okay? It's a feeling that you have the right to do or to have something you want without doing any work, okay? It's just like possessiveness, maybe.
R: Yeah, it's funny though, because as a verb entitled just means something you have a right to. For example, like you're entitled to a lawyer in court in many countries. And that's not a negative thing, because you're defending yourself. So it's just this idea with the collocation, the bizarre sense of entitlement, or just a sense of entitlement, or even entitlement.
M: So people on social media feel that they can get a hold of you. So they can just like reach you at any time during the day or night. And you have to respond, okay?
R: Yeah.
M: People can get a hold of you, like at any moment.
R: It's very funny, especially when someone contacts you from the other side of the world. And they're like, why are you not replying to me? And the answer is usually, well, I'm unconscious because I'm asleep. So it's not always possible.
M: I started using social media last year, when I was at school, or you can say that I used to use chat rooms. Rory mentioned stuff like MySpace and MSN.
R: Did you have MySpace, Maria?
M: No.