Meeting new people

How and where do you meet new people? Should you care about other people's opinions about you? How much should you trust the first impression of someone? Has your star sign got anything to do with how much of an extrovert/introvert you are?
Vocabulary
  • On a daily basis (phrase) — everyday.
  • To keep track (phrase) — to make certain that you know what is happening or has happened to someone or something.
  • Uneasy (adj.) — slightly worried or uncomfortable about a particular situation.
  • Give up on smth/smbd (phrasal verb) — stop having faith or belief in somebody or something.
  • To wind up (verb) — arrive or end up in a specified state, situation, or place.
  • Authentic (adj.) — if something is authentic, it is real, true, or what people say it is.
  • To draw smth/smbd in (phrasal verb) — if you draw someone in or draw them into something you are involved with, you cause them to become involved with it.
  • Invariably (adj.) — in every case or on every occasion; always.
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Questions and answers
Maria: Rory, do you often meet new people?

Rory: Um, well, actually, contrary to the joke at the beginning, I probably meet new people on a daily basis, or at least I used to, because I did the placement testing. So in order to do that, I had to go and meet students and talk to them about English and what they wanted to achieve. So I actually did that quite regularly.

Maria: How do you feel about meeting new people?

Rory: Well, it’s cool because obviously it’s a new experience every time, but it’s also quite difficult sometimes because it’s hard for me to keep track of people’s names. And the other thing is, because of the work that I do, sometimes people know me before I meet them and then that causes… Well, it’s like an imbalance in information flow, isn’t it? Because they know everything about you and you don’t know anything about them. But on the whole, it’s a positive thing, of course! You meet new people and make new friends.

Maria: Are you able to decide whether you like the person by the first meeting?

Rory: Well, according to my star sign, I am. Apparently… Well, I think there might be some truth to that, actually, because every time I’ve met someone new that I didn’t quite like and I had a little uneasy feeling about, I turned out not to like them so much. I mean, at least in the beginning, obviously, you don’t just give up on people because you had a bad first meeting. But it was a lot more difficult with people who were like that than people I felt positively about.

Maria: Is it easy for you to meet new people?

Rory: Um, ironically, given how much I hate being out in public, yes. Because, well, even through my work, I end up speaking to people. And then when I am out, I usually wind up speaking to people, like, lots and lots of people anyway. So it’s easy, like, it’s physically easy for me, but it’s mentally still quite difficult.

Maria: Do you care about people’s opinions about you?

Rory: Um, generally, not really. And to be honest, I think people in general are probably overly invested in how they’re perceived by others. But for me, I try not to think about it much. And actually people have said that’s one of the reasons that they like me — because I just say things how they are. And apparently being authentic is something that draws people in.

Maria: How do you meet new people? Like where? Where do you find new people?

Rory: Well, like I say, I meet lots of new people through work because being a teacher, and teacher trainer, and a manager you invariably wind up meeting new people all the time. I think work is the main way that a lot of people do this, actually. And then, of course, like, when I go out with my friends again, inevitably you wind up meeting new people that way. So I think it’s a combination of employment and just social events.

Maria: And when was the last time you met a new person?

Rory: That’s a very good question. I think it was probably… Oh, it was last night, actually! I’m on holiday with my friends right now. So we invited… well, they invited people around to where we are staying and we met new people that way. So that was that recently, I suppose.

Maria: Have you ever met anyone new online? Social dating?

Rory: Yes, actually! Because I got Instagram and everything, lots of people have been talking to me online! So I haven’t physically met them, but I’ve met them, like, just trading messages online.
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